💫Sparkle – Be the Brightest You💫

BELONG. BLOSSOM. BECOME 

I help you unlock your self belief and inner superstar🚀

Are you ready to 'Inhale confidence, and exhale self doubt'?

📣I hear your inner chatter..

 

Whether you're navigating personal setbacks, rejections, failures, self doubt, mum guilt and other difficult feelings which are hard  to share, this is a place for your transformation. If you are seeking a deeper sense of purpose, or simply ready to glow up from the inside out—you’re in the right place.

If your self-talk is -

 

🤦‍♂️I just don't have what it takes to make it

🤷‍♀️I'll never be good enough

😒I'm stuck and can't seem to move forward

😔No one believes in me the way I do

😏People will always outsmart me

😓I'm so far behind everyone else

😏 I can't share my dreams, what will people think about me

😓I am scared of failing in front of those who expect me to succeed

😭 I feel there is no light at the end of this tunnel, so many failures!

 

And the list goes on........

🫂I get it, I really do...🫂

 

I've been there, and I'm here to hold your hand and empower you to overcome these difficult feelings.

 

I want to help you be your own rescue with the wisdom and mindset which allows you to dream big.

 

🏅How do I make a difference to you?

 

Through powerful keynotes and REALLY PRACTICAL tips and wisdom,  Sparkle is a journey inward… and a celebration outward to help you with the 'HOW'

 

This immersive experience will  empower you with the mindset you need to stop chasing and start choosing.

 

This will give you the acumen to build and trust your GPS you need to achieve your goals, however far you may think you are from them. 

 

Ready to rewrite your story with joy, clarity, and courage? Let’s begin. ✨

 

Details of the topics on the key note and coaching are in the 'Neelu Offers' section towards the end of the page. But before that, lets make a 'Heart to Heart' connection.

I get that these feelings are vulnerable and you have every right to test why must you trust me..

 

KNOW ME A BIT MORE😊

 

Neelu is the Ex Head of Belonging, Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at the Prudential Regulation Authority, Bank of England.

 

She brings over 15 years of experience as an analyst, regulatory and strategic change leader with multiple different roles across Standard and Poor's Global and Bank of England - in India and UK. She is also a mother to a five year son. She has also served as a Non Executive Director for three years at Second Step Mental Health Charity in the UK. 

 

She has done several dynamic roles in her career across regulation, monetary analysis, credit rating analysis - leading teams directly and in a matrix model. She brings strong experience of engaging with executive leaders to drive impact.

 

She is a Certified Happiness Coach from Happitude - Berkeley Institute of Wellbeing, California. On a more fun note, she enjoys Bollywood Zumba.

 

She is an Indian who moved to London in 2015 and brings the super power of helping people meet their possibility through her own journey of transforming setbacks to the biggest comebacks.

 

Over the years she has excavated and applied tools to transform and develop in her career as a leader and awaken to her worth. Now its time to release the wisdom and amplify impact!

 

Neelu has spoken in over 20 live and virtual events and inspired lots of people in this journey, as a speaker and coached severed individuals awakening them to their worth. She has also designed, directed and hosted over 15 Belonging events on topics where staff can share those difficult feelings in a safe space.

 

She is known to be an energetic, dynamic and transformational speaker, who helps people wake up to their potential. 

 

Neelu's USP lies in speaking from her heart to transform and not just inform!

 

👉My story of setbacks to comebacks 

 

I grew up with  poor self esteem and confidence being shy, not feeling beautiful , being very mediocre with no unique talents and even a dream - very often feeling invisible. Neither did I bet on myself nor I saw anyone else doing so.

 

However a lot changed for me when I changed subjects in higher secondary school giving me the environment I needed to thrive. I suddenly went from average to brilliant consistently securing the first rank and being a Gold medallist university topper in my graduation. 

 

Despite being academically brilliant, I significantly lacked interpersonal skills and the social skills to engage confidently.  This aspect failed to support my rounded projection of being credible - the lack of 'showmanship' costed me a lot of opportunities many times. Sometimes I de-sponsored myself and sometimes, I gifted others the opportunity to do so.

 

My confidence made several disappearances - when I moved to London from India, not knowing what future held for me ; when I went through post natal depression after my first child born during covid lockdown; when I went through a string of rejections while applying for jobs and interviews.

 

Also, my self belief played hide and seek, while sometimes rejections made me feel -  I am not good enough, sometimes getting opportunities made me feel - I might not be able to pull it off. 

 

I also have gone through moments of ditching confidence just before a presentation or just before an important meeting feeling blank  or experiencing a choked throat trying desperately hard to get the words out. 

 

The turning point was that in this process , I started following transformational coaches, leadership coaches and motivational speakers (about four years now..) which helped me tremendously to shape shift my self worth, sense of judgement, my internal compass and more.

 

Applying the wisdom, I fell less, hurt less and bounced back more easily and stronger but most importantly, I became someone who started to like myself rather than seeking or relying on external validation. 

 

Having said all this, my confidence still gets naughty in high stake situations, but my ability to navigate it is significantly better by working on my mindset. 

 

👉NOW IS THE TIME TO SHARE WHAT MIGHT TRANFORM YOUR LIFE LIKE IT DID FOR ME👉

 

NEELU OFFERS

** These sessions could be both live (in London) and virtual (anywhere in the world)

FIRESIDE CHAT ON PRACTICAL and EMPOWERING CAREER TIPS :

- How to give an elevator pitch in networking meetings/introductions

- How to use opportunities to meet seniors in organisations (e.g. coffee randomisers, introduction chats)

- How to engage with your line manager credibly

- Things to do in the first 60 days of a new job - inspire trust with stakeholders

- The roadmap to 'effective stakeholder management'

- How to prepare for interviews effectively 

- Tips on being an effective and empathic line manager

- How I used Mat leave to empower my confidence, networking and inspiration

Key notes : POPULAR TOPICS

💫Train your confidence to be on your side

💫Rise above rejections - because delay is not denial

💫Setback to comeback - your guide to building self belief

💫For leaders/managers - Empowering you with the 'how exactly' to build a culture of Belonging and Psychological safety'

Group Happiness workshop 

An immersive experience of two sessions for groups of 10-15 to build self-reflection and excavation and motivation to be on the path to personal joy and happiness. Learn to get prompts on coaching yourself through setbacks and low moments.

 

This will be supplemented by providing a set of 10 repeatable daily activity prompts to help you feel that you are the owner and not a tenant of the house called ' My Happiness'

 

One to One coaching

Empower you with the mindset and motivation to not second guess but execute your goals 

 

Interviewing, Panel Event host

Panel moderation, interviewing of senior leaders with excellent 'excavation' questions outlining vulnerability to magically foster belonging and confidence in staff.